How we grouped them
We did not score these sites or count members. Each one is grouped by what it is built for, using its own homepage, FAQ or help pages, checked on 13 October 2026. We run Friends With Benefits Dating, so treat our own entry as ours.
Best for a focused FWB search
Friends With Benefits Dating
Built only for ongoing friends with benefits, with VIP and VIP Plus plans and prices published in three currencies. See what our plans include.
Best for reach
Tinder
The app most people already have, with a Relationship Goals field to state what you want. Read the full comparison with Tinder.
AdultFriendFinder
An adult site that mixes dating with cams and groups, where FWB is just one of many options. Read the full comparison with AdultFriendFinder.
Best for privacy in the moment
Pure
Pure says chats "disappear after 24 hours unless both parties consent to keep them going" and that screenshots aren't allowed (Pure, checked 14 October 2026). See how we compare with Pure in full.
Flava
Anonymous registration and screenshot protection. Flava says "over 90% of profiles are selfie-verified" (Flava, checked 14 October 2026). Read the full comparison with Flava.
Best for open-minded and ENM dating
Feeld
Desires on profiles, linked profiles with up to five people, biometric identity verification. Read the full comparison with Feeld.
Best for discretion
Ashley Madison
"Where Desire Meets Discretion": a billing descriptor it describes as discreet in its FAQ, and a broader audience than its affair-site past. Read the full comparison with Ashley Madison.
Better for relationships than FWB
Bumble
Built to bring people closer to love; since August 2026 either person can message first. Read the full comparison with Bumble.
Hinge
Designed to be deleted, with Dating Intentions on profiles. Read the full comparison with Hinge.
Another site with an FWB name
FWB Dating Only
An adult site whose homepage lists webcams, chatrooms and Hot or Not alongside FWB dating (fwbdatingonly.com, as read on 14 October 2026). Its name is close to ours, so check the address. Read the full comparison with FWB Dating Only.
What any good FWB search needs
Someone close enough to see regularly, a conversation you both come back to, and rules you have agreed out loud. Our guide on FWB rules and our trust and safety guide help on any site.
Our prices
| Plan | Length | USD | EUR | GBP |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| VIP | 1 month | $42.81 | €34.24 | £29.96 |
| VIP | 12 months | $260.19 | €155.91 | £155.91 |
| VIP Plus | 1 month | $51.39 | €38.53 | £34.24 |
| VIP Plus | 12 months | $338.41 | €208.05 | £208.05 |
Questions people ask
What is the best app for friends with benefits?
It depends on what you value. For focus, use a site built for FWB. For reach, a general app like Tinder. For privacy, Pure or Flava. For open-minded dating, Feeld.
Are FWB sites safe?
No site can promise that. Chat first, check the person matches their photos, meet in public, agree on sexual health, and never send money.
How did you rank these?
We grouped them by what each site says it is built for, using their own pages checked on 13 October 2026, rather than scoring them.
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